Feng Shui MysteryThe quality of a marital relationship can affect the harmony of the entire family. If the relationship between husband and wife deteriorates or they frequently have disputes and conflicts, it might be influenced by feng shui. In such cases, it is necessary to resolve the feng shui factors that affect the marital relationship. So, what are the feng shui factors that cause marital disharmony and how can they be resolved?
I. Feng Shui Reasons for Marital Discord
1. Placing Lion or Tiger Figurines in the Bedroom
When placing fierce figurines like lions or tigers in the bedroom, their heads must face outward; otherwise, it may lead to frequent quarrels between the couple. If it’s a tiger pattern, the tiger must be climbing up the mountain and not descending, as a descending tiger symbolizes aggression and indicates that the couple may often argue. Fierce animal pictures often carry a negative energy. Hanging them in the bedroom can affect one’s mood and, over time, may result in constant bickering between the couple.
2. Bedroom conflict
The bed in the bedroom of a couple is most afraid of being in conflict with the bedroom door. “Conflict” means impulse and change. If it is in conflict, it will affect the physical health and marriage of both parties. There will be changes in thoughts. If it lasts for a long time, it will affect the feelings between the couple. In serious cases, it may even lead to divorce. At this time, it is best to move the bed away.
3. The bedroom of the couple is located in the southwest or northwest direction.
According to feng shui, if the master bedroom is in the northwest or southwest direction, there is a high probability that there will be problems in the relationship between the couple. In Feng Shui, this is because the southwest direction is prone to Dou Niu Sha (Clashing Oxen Conflict), while the northwest direction is susceptible to Liuqi Jiao Jian Sha (Six-Seven Crossed Swords Conflict). Therefore, if you want to enhance the relationship between the couple, it is necessary to avoid these two directions.
II. How to Alleviate the Bad Feng Shui Caused by a Discontented Marriage
1. Appropriate Pink Decorations
Although pink is the color of romance, if used appropriately, it can enhance the sentiment between a couple and deepen their affection. You can place a few pink ornaments at the bedside, use pink curtains, or paint the wall behind the bed a light pink. All these can promote the romantic atmosphere between the couple, making their love more fulfilling and the family more harmonious.
2. Use Gourds to Enhance Spousal Affection
Gourds themselves are talismans that absorb negative energy and are often used in families with many illnesses. Natural wooden gourds can also promote family harmony and happiness. If family members are not getting along, each person can take nine strands of their hair, their nails, their Bazi, their names, and the charm for harmony, and put them all into the gourd. Then place it at the bedside of the couple’s bedroom, and it can strengthen their relationship.
